https://www.theguardian.com/society/2018/nov/04/nobody-could-make-me-laugh-like-you-instagram-memories-of-those-lost-to-aids > @theaidsmemorial is gathering thousands of tributes from friends and family to loved ones they lost through Aids. Here are some of the most moving – and uplifting – contributions > LGBT+ activist Mike Balaban on his Hamptons housemates architect Tom Thate, designer Todd Shearer and Alan MundtIn 1986, I spent the summer in Southhampton, an NYC-area beach resort, renting an apartment with friends. It was the first of 12 consecutive summers spending virtually every weekend and many vacations there.