https://www.mercurynews.com/2022/08/05/ask-amy-im-his-wife-and-i-should-be-first-on-the-emergency-list/

Dear Amy: I just got upset at my husband because I found out that he put my mother-in-law (his mom) as his first contact on his driver’s license. He listed me as his second contact.

Am I overreacting or being selfish? I feel hurt because I’m his wife!