https://www.mercurynews.com/2022/07/25/ask-amy-why-should-it-be-suspicious-when-a-woman-changes-her-life/ > Dear Amy: I was horrified by your response to “Mystified,” the husband who didn’t understand why his wife had lost a lot of weight and had become “more independent.” > Instead of praising her weight loss and her independence, you suggested that she might be having an affair!