https://www.mercurynews.com/2022/05/06/ask-amy-what-can-i-do-when-my-friends-are-cruel-to-strangers/

Dear Amy: Recently I have been out with a couple of different “gal pals” who openly and loudly ridiculed people in public who were significantly overweight/obese.

With several family members who fight weight problems, it really galls me.