https://www.mercurynews.com/2022/05/09/ask-amy-my-wife-and-i-are-disciplined-why-are-our-boys-sedentary-slobs/ > Dear Amy: I realize I’m about to complain about a first-world problem, but I am a dad and will always want what is best for my boys. > My wife and I have two awesome sons in their early 20s who live with us.