https://www.mercurynews.com/2022/04/29/ask-amy-he-calls-me-controlling-because-i-resent-his-single-man-attitude/ > Dear Amy: I met my boyfriend shortly after separating from my husband of 24 years. > The marriage was good for many years, producing two sons who I love dearly. Eventually I discovered that my husband was living a double life — he’s gay and had numerous homosexual affairs during our marriage. Naturally I was devastated and left the marriage.