https://www.mercurynews.com/2021/10/05/ask-amy-husband-accused-me-unfairly-and-we-havent-spoken-in-weeks/

Dear Amy: My husband and I have been married for 20 years. He had a vasectomy after our son was born 19 years ago because he had two older children from a previous marriage.

During our marriage, he has cheated twice, and I forgave him.