https://www.mercurynews.com/2019/10/29/dear-abby-husband-looks-horrible-how-make-him-see-doctor/

DEAR ABBY: My husband has lost a significant amount of weight over a very short period of time. He isn’t on drugs and eats well.

I have begged him to see a doctor. He has come up with a variety of excuses and reasons why he has lost the weight. First it was because he was stressed at work. Then it was because he was stressed at home. Now he says he just needs to eat and exercise more, but he’s “sooo busy,” but he’ll start eventually.